erm....I had a one-nighter with a girl last week and she just facebooked me. I didn't recognise her from the picture and TBH the name on the message was different to the one I was calling her last week.
Now I've just sent a reply to her saying "erm...do we know each other?" It's only on closer inspection of her photo albums that I recognise her.
I'm a bit of a cock.
IT WAS A JOKE
youre an awful man.
but it was a joke.
^5
Yeah, pretty much the only option. Unless you're honest, and a pussy, or something.
...
I've jsut messaged her to apologise.
I doubt she'll reply.
...
I'm filled with nought but shame.
I'm such a ho'
incorrect
you're a 'stupid ho'.
no need to thank me, but thanks for the giggle ;)
superman dat
HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
laughing. i am.
ohdearohdearohdear.
Silly billy.
*willy
ha!
ya fanny!
she replied.
called me a cunt.
:-(
ooooooh.
ouch. oh well.... ?
Her calling you that
isn't as bad as you not realising who she was to be fair
...
yeah I think it was pretty justified.
Why didn't you
just send a message saying "ooh, i didn't recognise your picture, sorry! How are you?"
Doy.
...
I did, third post down.
well it was only a one night stand.....
so provided she's not in your circle of friends. and you never see her again. woooop.
and if its a one night stand... why was she contacting you on facebook anyways?? did you exchange profile htmls before you went your separate ways or something?
....
Its pretty safe, she lives in sheffield and I met her in a club I rarely go to.
Also I'm kinda at a loss cos I don't remember telling her my surname, and if I did, I spell it slightly different to normal.
Maybe she got the private investigators in.
Or probably just checked my wallet while I was in the shower.
to be honest,
it's a bit weird that she managed to track you down on facebook after a one nighter... if it was clear that's what it was...
And you didn't 'not recognise' her deliberately. i doubt you were expecting her to get in touch via facebook (if at all) anyways, so i imagine it was a tad out unexpected.
She'll get over it. you're not a bad person.
thanks b
I thought it was a bit shitty, but you've made feel so much better.
hurrah, yea no guilt.
well the fact you're upset about it enough to start a thread on it..
suggests that you didn't just brush it off and not 'give a shit'.
just a genuine mistake with not realising who she was... it hardly means you're a bastard.
hoorah for no guilt! now lets just hope she hasn't given you karma syphilis!
karma syphilis...
it sounds like a curry.
one that i intend not to eat.
I'm guessing...
its a fish curry.
or maybe lamb?
fish? why not.
on the topic of curries.
Aloo sag: sounds like an STD.
it's almost like curries and STDS are interchangeable.
I just had a jalfrezi
I tested it for STD', the results were clear.
Phew!
That's what I was wondering.
Surely if it was a one nighter, it's not really the thing to do to after-stalk? If they'd wanted to meet, they would have exchanged phone numbers. No?
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also its been a full week. We met last Saturday night, and she messaged me this evening.
Okay.
Well, I wouldn't exactly call that normal behaviour.
But what is normal with one night stands? I bleedin' married one of mine! Wish I'd just told him to bugger of the next day.
yeah one night stands often end up in relationships...
...i guess because the common way to meet people is through excessive drinking followed by accidental(?) sex.. and THEN you get to know them.
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its how I've ended up with all my previous girlfriends. In fact I've tried it other ways, ie asking someone out, dates etc. it hasn't lasted very long.
yeah...oddly enough..
my more successful relationships have started out like that... (although defining 'level of success' is problematic in the face of failed 'ships!)
dating is almost unheard of these days.... i've had a couple of great ones though!
I still do it....
I mean I'll ask someone out, and go on a few dates, but it just usually fizzles out, whereas the relationships that have come from a one night stand have been a lot more relaxed.
Probably cos the sex is out of the way, and its not an issue, if that makes sense.
yeah i know what you mean..
in some ways it makes a lot of sense. No build up of expectations.. it's already out the way so it kind of lets you get on with the getting to know them bit...
I think it depends.. sometimes that can work well.. other times it's nice to wait... Well, particularly with relationships that have evolved out of friendships.
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I've never been in a relationship thats come from a friendship, I nearly was a few weeks ago, but it was weird there was no spark after we hooked up and we both sorta lost interest in it, so I can't relate but I imagine it would be different.
yeah well..... i think the only reason it worked for me...
...was because we'd never been 'normal' heterosexual friends. We were like 'joey and dawson' sleeping over at each others all the time... but in our early 20's.. chuck a lot of weed and alcohol into the mix.....and it was inevitable. Didn't end so great though, and couldn't salvage a friendship out of it so that was a shame....! should have seen that coming though.
did it affect your friendship?
I think that's cause
if they evolve out of friendships there is more riding on it working out as you already have an emotional commitment.
Dating is just confusing often. It just seem a bit polite and reserved to work out where you both stand.
^^ totally right about the friendship thing..
there's a lot of pressure to make it work... it's a risky venture... :/
Dating is bizarre, it's either GREATTTT, or horribly horribly awkward. in my experience.
....
In a Tony The Tiger stylee.
oh man
this happened to me once. I ignored. This is one of the few situations where complete ignoring is justified.
were you the....
ignorer or the ignoree?
The ignorer
to be honest I still have no idea how he found me on there, I never told him my last name and it's all foreign and weird anyway so he wouldn't know how to spell it. CREEPY.
ALKBURG
shut it albares
you be quiet
HALARNE.
at least i'm old enough to drink
RUBUKE!
you've lost me
he's probably watching you now
IT'S YOU ISN'T IT
ARGHHHH
(I was scared for weeks after this cause he knew where I live and all)
....
I like the way you;ve done your hair today.
and taht cardigan, is that new?
I'm not wearing a cardigan
MASSIVE SIGH OF RELIEF.
...
did I at least get the new hair right?
well
I don't believe I was wearing it like this on that specific night, so you did kind of.