They get in the way of other girlfriends.

make sure you tell us all about it.

I used to think I did, I was obsessed with trying to find one.

When the right person comes along etc.

I thought you'd had bad experiances. People who've been burned should learn to avoid fire.

Serious answer though. No! Unless there's a girl you really like. Having girlfriends for the sake of having girlfriends is rubbish.

beacuse they end up moving in with you and then one day say 'I quite like that Ting Tings record'.

no i would say yes actually.yes

if I had a penny for everytime I had a girlfriend dilema, I would have 4p

but we do need constant attention

flagellate

masturbate

cultivate other interests that will make you a more attractive person

and then she will come

is do you have any POTENTIAL girlfriends? Also, do you like them? If the answer to both is yes, then what are you waiting for?

they can be delicious (the steps I mean) the better the person the more delicious the steps, but then you will end up with a person that you will want to keep for a bit, bu not being with a person you want to keep for a bit then you can continue to take the steps, but then you would need to keep on bypassing lovely people that you do get off with (its is of course wrong to have your cake and eat it....have a girlfreind and continue to chat up and get off with others)

the question is

what do you need right now?

well I think that you cannot predefine who is actually come along next.....who is coming into your sights next....or even if they already have then you cannot be certain of their quality in depth........therefore I think it is best to play it by ear.......you may get hur....you may get burnt, but it is sincere and its the only way to learn/progress......fall head over heels if you feel like it or not if you dont. I'm afraid you shouldnt really have a predefined plan, because that precludes the potential quality of the relationship that comes along next.

I met Mrs Knees kinda on the rebound of a horrible long term girlfriend (its complicated) but it was totally the right thing (the proof is in the pudding and I aint strayed yet....and i dont stand on ceremony when it comes to that sort of thing)

sorry, but I seem to remember tht your coming out of a bummer of a relationship

you should indulge in a little ?????????.

because she totally told me she didn't believe the stars were millions of miles away, and that they were big

also i technically cheated on her with my ex, but that's technicalities.

how fast is your broadband and how soft is your hand?

you just play around and get the fun out of it, until someone you really really like comes along and then do the whole committed relationship thing. Otherwise if you get a girlfriend for the sake of it then you might feel like you're missing out on no strings "studenty fun", if you get me.

deeply unattractive it is for guys to be in relationships because they 'want a girlfriend'.

it reeks of insecurity and it's not an attractive quality - if you meet the right person, go ahead.. fall in love, be happy.. but learn to be happy on your own.. a far more attractive and enticing quality, let me tell you... if you do that, you will have women JUMPING your bones non stop. Have seen it happen many times before.

*Sames goes for the ladies and vice versa..

is right and move on?