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Evaluate your university experience

Not just those who have finished, but those who are still midway through.

I feel like I've wasted a lot of opportunities in a funny way. I don't feel like I've made the right social choices until the start of this year, and I think I should have been more involved in lots of things. I worry too much about work, and don't do enough of it.

Does everyone feel like that midway through university? It's supposed to be the best years of your life, right?



  • Never again

    That about sums it up.

    • ^

      this

    • but i thought you enjoyed bits of it?

      and you certainly made a few good friends there.

      • I enjoyed certain bits, but in a way

        that ruined the next 18 months of my life. So not worth it.

  • best decision i ever made

    was not going to uni. I live a traditional uni lifestyle without actually having to do any of the work or deal with the stress or live in halls etc

    • as in i'm friends with a lot of students in brighton

      and can freely join in their activities of fun, I just don't have to deal with all the work.

      • ^ this

        plus, working a full-time job means i have money to do more things and don't have to worry about running out all the time.

        • exactamundo

          i recently went to stay with a uni friend in leicester and had to stay in her halls.
          I felt a little bit sick the whole time i was there.

    • And without the qualification you get at the end of it?

  • I had a whale of a time

    Every day I got up and the only thing I would do that day was expand my mind and have brilliant people make me laugh.

    Yeah I look back and there's some many things I'm like "Oh I should've done that" and "Why didn't I speak to them earlier?" but fuck it, that's just life

  • whoever says it's the best years of your life

    is full of shit as far as I'm concerned. I had a good time but don't feel like it did me a lot of favours, and I didn't really feel like myself until I left

    • ^this

      I felt kind of strange the whole time and didn't know why. You spend the whole time thinking you *should* be a certain way, and then you leave and realise the way you were before you went was much better :).

  • I have to leave to revise at my uni library now

    I will comment later. The whole of DiS is hanging on my every word I'm sure.

  • my time at uni:

    TOTAL WASTE OF MONEY

  • smokey smokey smokey

    smokey smokey droppy outty.

    • Years 1 + 2 - Hell on earth

      I think 1999/2000 was "year of the c*nt" at my uni.

      Attempted to start Year 3 - dropped out. Lost funding. Ran up £3,500 in debt. Had breakdown. Got better.

      Years 3 + 4 - The best years at uni. Best social events and best mates who I still keep in with now. Job has no bearing on degree though!

      I strongly believe that uni is not for everyone and the more folk that realised that the less folk there would be that couldn't give tuppence (sorry) about what they did there and what they do now. A good uni experience is one that truly benefits and enriches your life.

      • oh

        and i shouldn't have gone at 17.

        Should have waited a couple of years methinks

  • I really enjoyed myself

    and about halfway through, met a whole load of new people, drifted away from friends I didn't have much in common with anymore and started doing lots of interesting stuff.

    Don't miss it though

  • Best years of my life. Properly, properly loved it.

  • Realising that 3yrs of my life

    that went to hours of studying. Projects. Lectures and no money amounted to:
    - Never using anything I learned in the job I have
    - Being told I could have all the degrees in the world but without 2yrs experience I will find it hard to find a job.
    - No money

    • The 2nd point

      is exactly why i'm not going to uni.

      • Seriously if I knew that I wouldn't have bothered.

        my advice is whatever career you want to go into, become an assistant or look into intern programs and work for free whilst waitering or something. That way you're getting the experience as well as an education for free and when you leave you're 2yrs ahead of people who would have just graduated!

  • best decision i made...

    had a brilliant time, made loads of friends, probably didn't learn as much as i should have due to too much fun, but did enjoy a lot of my course.

  • I passed up too many opportunities

    by worrying I wouldn't be good enough for certain jobs, and I wasn't the most outgoing guy in 1st year, but I made several really good friends, I managed to do some work I was proud of, and even though I've been out of my chosen work for a year I feel I'd be ready to go into it now. There's always regret but that's just proof of growth, I could'nt imagine anything worse than thinking I was totally right 4 years ago, I wouldn't have learnt anything.

  • i'm midway through

    it's been a lot of fun, i've met lots of good people and the work side of things is going reasonably - the only thing i sometimes question is how much time i should really be spending sat around in front of a computer/ out drinking etc vs. time which could be spent actually doing things for the societies i joined at the beginning of the year... seems to be an inevitable fact that laziness wins to some extent

    • Absolutely loved it all

      Went through the inevitable tiny bought of feeling down but pretty much 100% loved every minute. And that’s not even looking though rose tinted glasses. I think I was very lucky in that respect.

      Best thing I ever did.

  • looking back, I really enjoyed uni

    though I probably didn't realise how much at the time. I didn't exactly work as hard as I might have done - at least not until the last semester - but I had a decent circle of good mates and I was never stuck for things to do. I don't know what I would have done had I not gone, probably just worked some shitty office jobs like this one I suppose.

    The hardest thing has been adapting to post-uni life, which hasn't gone as well as I'd hoped to be honest. But to answer your question, uni was definitely a positive experience. I'd been mollycoddled up to that point, and I learned a lot during those three years.

  • I didnt think they were the best years

    but the most uncomplicated, consistent level of happiness. Since then its like woooooooooo! boooooooooo! much more a rollercoaster....

    in answer to question BSC in Nottingham before the place went to shit, was loads of fun, course was pretty good, people were a bit cliched student types thou, so had to find outside uni friends too.

    2nd time round BA, expericne was amazinging, australia, surf sun sea, recording studios, only english person on course :).. course Middlesex uni, DOG POO.

    there u go :)

    The key to being a student is to find pleasure in little things that highlight ur freedom. going to read book in middle of park on a sunny day, staying up all night cos there no consequence etc.

    • I'm beginning to realise the importance

      of that last paragraph now. I mean, I've always enjoyed doing things on my own, and fairly boring things at that, but somehow I felt that once I was in uni I was supposed to or expected to do the most amazing things with a bunch of amazing people all the time.

  • I've just finished my first year now.

    I had VERY high hopes when I came here.

    I am very happy with my course. I've had to do some extra stuff this year (for extra credits) that was fairly boring but pretty much every module I've chosen for next year looks amazing.

    However... The social aspect of my first year has frankly been exhausting, and not in the good way. I've ended up in the most unsociable halls, and the people in my seminars are pretty much the same. But I'll be living with people I like next year so again, next year is looking better.

  • 6/10

    next!

  • Some bits weren't so good but wouldn't change owt at all

    Getting into so much debt was, on reflection, fucking horrendous and something I've not managed to shift after 4 years of solid work. I'm still suffering.

    But I met some fantastic people, experienced so much I'd never experience otherwise, learnt so much about life and basically changed my entire outlook instead of staying at home in my shitty hometown working in admin for the rest of my life. I remember thinking about halfway through that it wasn't all I thought it'd be, but it's the power of hindsight to realise it's actually a hell of a lot better than you think it is at the time. And I wish I could afford to go back, to be honest...

  • LOVED

    Uni. Made best friends. Drunk obscene about of booze and had some absolutely amazing times.

    It's after that's bitching. History 2.1 degree doesn't help in the "job market", plus complete lack of motivation whilst wishing i could still live the student lifestyle makes it very hard to get a job.

    • ^ this is my problem

      I have a degree I don't really know what to do with, and I had such a good time doing fuck all at uni I just wish I was still there instead of working.

      I can see myself ending up a bit like Jez from Peep Show to be honest.

      • hhhmm....

        At the start of the "year" (I still use the acedemic year), I decided to go back to my Uni town (Leicester), jacked it in after 2 months of non-working. Then went home for a couple of months. Worked. Then quit. Then went to America. Came home. Worked for a couple of weeks. Quit. Moved to Norwich and non-worked. After after 2 months without a job in Norwich I'm moving back home again.

        Nomad.

  • i'm sure i've wasted opportunities

    but then we all waste opportunities in life.

    i didn't enjoy my third year of my first degree much, but this masters has been good, probably 'cause i've been living in london and enjoying life more

    wouldn't do again (i'm getting too old for this shit), but would recommend to a friend

    • too old?

      you're only a year older than me, and i'm in my first year

  • It was okay

    I wish I'd taken a year out before though, I really don't think I was mature enough to study at uni level at 18, I just drank and smoked pot and learnt nothing for the first year, and the next two years weren't much better. My degree hasn't helped me at all, though I did learn some interesting stuff, even if I can't remember most of it. But I did have some amazing times, met my girlfriend, and made some friends that I still want to keep in touch with, so it could have been worse.

  • Did the trick

    My sole purpose was to get a decent degree that would help me get into the career I wanted

    I got the degree, and I'm now doing what I want to. I didn't 'expand my mind' or any of that crap

    It was an extension to my education and it seems to have worked. Crazy scenes

  • Mine was fucking ace

    Lots of fun, really enjoyed my course, made a bunch of friends that I'm still in touch with (ok, maybe not a bunch that I speak to regularly, but you know what I mean. We're facebook friends! :P) and partied lots. My only regret is that I didn't break up with my crap gf until the end of 3rd year, so I didn't get to make it with as many ladies as I would have liked. But thems the breaks.

    Overall aceness, and I got a well good degree out of it. That I am not using at all in my current job. And that no-one cares about. And thousands of pounds of debt. But no, stop these thoughts!

    It was ace :D

  • I'm half way through now.

    Second year was great; much much better than first. Hopefully third will be even better!
    The best thing to do is to make the effort and find 4/5 really good friends. Uni is full of people who want as many 'friends' as possible to say "hi!" to, but fail on every other level. Those people will only waste your time.

  • I had a terrific time

    and struggle to think of anything bad about it. I didn't go to uni until I was 22 though and I think this helped me in being a bit more relaxed about making friends and I think I knew how to enjoy myself a bit more than when I was 18.

    • totally

      I did two years starting age 17, and it was good, but I ballsed it up. Still got some good friends from then though. I went back when I was 21 or 22 and much more screwed on. Plus i had worked full-time for two years so I realised the true amazingness of my 6 hour a week schedule!

      • i worked 2 years full time as well

        ok, i miss the money and my amazing flat, but SIX HOURS A WEEK (or pretty close to that anyway)

        looks like all my lectures next year will be crammed into two or three days :D

    • oh good!

      so you can go to uni at 22 and fit in and have a good time make friedns etc?

      • of course!

        plus a lot of the younger students automatically think you're cool because of your extra years. bonus.

  • Whilst the social aspect

    was in the most part, excellent.

    I still wish I'd dropped out and re-applied to do a different course after the doubts I had midway through the first year. My degree is in history and to me, it feels pretty useless at the moment and I strongly resent it. I also wish I'd worked harder in some areas.

  • Re: "Useless" degrees

    I'm a bit worried about ending up doing something completely unrelated to my actual degree, or that no one will give a fuck about it. So that would be a waste. At the same time, I'm enjoying my course so much, and I would never have done anything radically different from this, so in that respect it's not a waste at all.

    And I wouldn't have a problem moving to another country for a job, so I'm hoping degrees from UK unis are well sought after out there.

    • i'm doing a PhD completely unrelated to my undergrad.

      and yet my undergrad helped me get the scholarship. so ultimately, it doesn't matter what undergrad you're doing. just don't fail. it's a good tool for creating more opportunities further down the line.

      • yeah i've been meaning to ask

        what phd are you doing? i'm sure you've told me what undergrad you did as well, but i can't remember cause my memory is crap.

        • genetics undergrad

          socio-legal studies postgrad

          :D

          oh and an art foundation in between the two. because i make no sense.

  • i had a brilliant time at undergrad.

    postgrad is less fun. :(

    • I really want to be a postgrad

      I don't feel like I've learnt anything of particular value as undergrad.

      Maybe it's just the whole GETYOUAJOB!GETYOUAJOB!GETYOUAJOB! atmosphere at Bath, but I feel like I'm on some kind of conveyor belt, rather than being allowed to be interesting. Whenever I've tried to do something original or something difficult and challenging, I've been rewarded for it by getting lower marks than friends who've played it safe.

      • i did my undergrad at cardiff..

        and they were SOOO shit at encouraging students to go on to do Masters of PhDs... we basically were left to figure all this out on our own, i didn't have a fucking clue how to go about it. But yeah, they seemed to just tell us to go an get a job or something. i was less keen to do this.

        postgrad is fucking hard work, so there's less time to anything fun... but at the same time, i have learned more in the last 9 months, than i did over the 3 years of my undergrad.. and i find it all so fascinating. i was quite despairing with my undergrad. it was all mostly regurgitated bullshit i could have read in a text book. postgrad is completely different. and you decide what you want to learn, what you want to research, pursue... i love it!

        • Masters or* PhD's

        • You've just confirmed what I thought

          Now to get that upper second in my final year.

          • you'll be fine!!

            :D

            where are you thinking of studying postgrad? and do you know what you'd want to do?

            • International Relations or something like that. International Politics etc

              Aberystwyth or LSE. Maybe SOAS.

        • Ohh

          I didn't know you were doing a PhD too. Best clique ever!

          *worst clique ever; too much time spent reading journal articles

  • worst

    thing that ever happenned to me. managed to get through 3 years making no friends. wouldn't go to classes because they scared me too much. never went out because the handful of people I knew never wanted to.
    It scarred my life indefinitely ...

  • I'M A STUDENT

  • Given the choice again I wouldn't bother

    I like the relative freedom, but feel like I've payed a lot for very little return. Really haven't worked hard enough and basically I can't wait till third year is over.

    Friends-wise I have made about 10 good friends who are keepers, the rest aren't people I'd ever have spoken to.

  • not started yet

    therefore it gets i/10

    I'm looking forward to it though. I'm not going to read this thread because it will probably dent my optimism

  • i had fun and i got a 2:1: 10/10

  • i have not started yet

    but despite all the lovely horror stories from you lot, i'm still hopeful that it'll be a good experience in some way. i have no doubt that my degree will be completely useless when it comes to the real world, but seeing as the whole 'getting-into-massive-debt' thing isn't really applicable for me (I'M A SCOTTISH STUDENT!) i basically have nothing to lose. and it REALLY can't be any worse than school, surely.

    • which Uni are you going to in Scotland?

      I was at Glasgow, and am going back for more in a few weeks. I LOVED it.

      • i'm going to glasgow!

        hooray, positive messages!

        • i applied to glasgow

          didn't give me an offer, the bastards (this was in june/july though)

          • scottish universities

            basically hand out offers to scottish students on a plate. it's great.

            • it depends what you're studying, though.

              If both your intended degree and Uni choice are worthwhile, probably not so easy.

              If you're doing Art History at Cali they practically lassoo you

  • I kinda feel the same as you.

    I feel like I don't go out as much as I should do though and I feel like I haven't made the most of living in this city. I also feel like I should have made an effort with those people that I don't really see anymore (from first year). I also stress about my work too much and have sacrificed fun for that, yet am stil not getting the grades that I want. And I've got no money, despite living on a strict budget since September.

    I'm sure I'll look back on this is a few years and decide it was great, but at the moment it's bloody rubbish.

  • i've nearly finished my first year

    the first term was pretty bad, i spent most of the time getting dunk on my own and being a miserable cunt, but since then i realised that i really like my degree and i've met some amazingly clever, funny people, although i don't know anyone who likes the same music as me who isn't graduating.
    overall, smug/10

  • Undergrad: ace/10

    Postgrad: prettymuchlikehavingajob/10

  • loved it

    i was ready to move on after 4 years (which i think is the perfect amount of time), but i loved being able to spend so much time doing what i wanted, with the folks I liked, and I liked what i studied - sure some of the coursework was a ballache, but overall it ws fine. Made a lot of really good mates there an all.