it was our anniversary yesterday and i get a text at 9am saying 'just had a horrible dream where you kissed someone from work and cuddled and said you were in love with him when i was there but then thought youd done no wrong so dumped me for being unreasonable and got straight with the guy thinkin u were in the right. up a meany. not a nice start to our anniversary at all'
then...
'feel a bit better now having got your messages, wish u were here tho so i could confirm youre not a cock'
then later making no sense...
'as if, no idea at all. if u dont you to go dont. sure noone is making you. i cant even make u when i try but then i cant even get u to come over to the road with me. i am ok about the dream, just scared its a premonition'
baring in mind i have never EVER come even remotely close to even dreaming of cheating on him. this is weird behaviour, right?
on our 5 year anniversary?
its very upsetting anyway
How is his cock doing?
Sounds like a nutjob
Hi!
Oh harro!
Get out of the commentary
he sounds slightly unreasonable.
just reassure him lots, it sounds like that's all he is after really.
He sounds slightly mental.
wait
he had a dream that you were cheating on him? that's the issue? i'm really confused.
essentially
but i think its the underlying problem that he is taking this dream to mean something and taking it out on me. on our 5 year anniversary!
I don't get it
dunno what to say really
i have a similar problem with my gf, weve been together a long long time and i thought we were set for life, but it seems she has some unreasonable distrust in me and thinks im gonna cheat on her.
truth is i would rather cut my own heart out than cheat on her and its distressing that she thinks i might
^^ im in exactly the same situation
what do you do?
wuh?
Tell him to MTFU and worry over real issues, not fucking dreams.
im worried this is a real issue
for him, not me
5 years?
Break up with him. Beat him to it.
^ this
Obv he has a screw loose.
you've been going out with him since you were 14
it's clearly time to move on
and his unconscious knows it
he's just woken up half-realising that he doesn't actually own you
This obviously isn't normal behaviour.
You've been together for 5 years, surely he should trust you by now. It's his problem not yours, all you can do is sit down and talk to him about it although I'm not sure there's much you can do. ;(
whys he taking a dream serriuosly?
that seems strange. Tell him he is being paraniod and silly.
He might be some kind of Nostradamus?
:D
hehe
finish him
pedigree.
I don't think murder is the answer
mental case
phone the services
...
Has he been shacked up in the wacko basket since you saw him last?
Dump him and sleep with some guy on DiS instead.
^ speaking from experience
^5
tru dat
Perhaps someone local to you
maybe