his girlfriend pregnant after a similar time frame.

The girl thought she could never get pregnant so was really happy. They decided to have the baby and now have a lovely baby boy and are really happy.

Not for me though no no no no.

if I didn't want a baby, I'd make sure I wasn't going to get one and if I did get one, it would be own fault and I'd have to get used to the idea if that's what she wanted.

i can barely look after myself at the moment.

no, oh i dunno, i really don't think so. no. oh i really don't know. i hate this question. hypothetical questions are the worst things in the world.

if you make an agreement then you stick to it, you can't just change your mind about something as important as that unless you both wanted to.

hard time sticking by those things. Guess you've just got to really try and make sure it doesn't.

i think we decided that we wouldn't have it what with being at uni/having our whole lives ahead of us/not being massively serious about us, however I don't really know how either of us would react if she did get pregnant. maybe things would be different.

unless you're in that situation imo

im only young really (well definately for having kids), but i've been with my girlfriend a while. and obviously we havent planned kids, and dont want kids, but i reckon if it accidently happened we wouldn't be able to get rid of it. it's wierd. i think i just watch Knocked Up and Juno too much.

a good friend of mine who's the same age as me is 7 1/2 months pregnant with her boyfriend of about a year, it's pretty crazy. they were shitting themselves at first, but now they're so excited, i think it'd be the same for me.

some people you wouldn't wanna have kids with, as much as you like them

but probably definitely wouldn't do it with my money/no career direction situation

i think a woman in that situation should probably stick to her original plan. i'm not sure whether i would - depends on partner, depends on life circumstances - but its a massively emotive issue. it can feel just as right to say 'no' and abort as it might do to decide to have a child

although it was after 18 months. I thought I'd act in a certain way if my partner fell pregnant. When faced with the stark reality we both reacted very very differently. In the end on this occasion the decision wasn't in our hands as there was no chance of the foetus surviving and had to be removed, but it was the most difficult and emotionally fucked up time of my life.

with no reservations.

Anyway, from past experience, pregnant girls are horny, and there's no need for condoms, and they're even more psychotic and it's OK.

It kind of makes up for the sexless spell after the abortion but you can always dump them.

or something.

as a present.

It'd be scary to say the least :S

The both love the kid but don't seem to like each other at all. They just seem miserable whenever I see them.

They got given a free house from their parents aswell. I would not get given a free house.

you cant automatically stick to something decided before it happened, everythings changed and you would have to discuss it and be surportive of what they wanted now

even though i really, really don't want children right now, i hate the bloody things.

i don't think it really matters if you've both agreed not to have kids, it all changes when emotions about terminating your child are thrown into the mix.

whoever it was though, i would definitely encourage them to have an abortion. I'd definitely be in the baby's life if she did decide to have it, but I am not sure in what way.

Oops.

i've always been very much "woman's decision", but i'm aware my feelings might be different if i'm ever put in that position. in conclusion, i have no idea

I just don't think 6 months is a long enough period of time to make a judgement on a person as to wheter they would be a good person father/mother a child. It's got to be fair on the kid....

You shouldn't be having sex with babies!

i'd stand by them either way.
deal with the consequences of your actions.

what a square

A friend of mine's Girlfriend fell pregnant, they were careful, she was on birth control - things happen, he absolutley was against having the baby as he felt they were not ready, but she was dead set on having the baby. They now have a beautiful baby boy and he says he would never wish for it to be otherwise.

make preggo women change, those who never wanted children are suddenly gooing over babygrows and men who were the same are eyeing up buggies in the street

I think it's impossible to say without being in the situation and judging your personal circumstances, but me being a bit baby mad I would never say i wouldn't have it anyways :)

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that my feelings on this are changing. I'm actually old enough to have a baby! Not that I want one yet, but it would be more of a decision if it happened now. I think it's because my best friend has had a baby.